Since I already logged in to add Laling's blog -- Inside Thoughts -- in my Blogroll, I thought of making a short post to commemorate this special day. Uh-huh, you heard me right or make that you read me right, hehehe. Today is indeed a special day because we're celebrating Valentine's Day. As I write this, I could already feel or sense that love is in the air. It seems that this day gives you that unexplainable feeling of happiness, inspiration or optimism despite the current turmoil that you're going through in your life -- be it in relationships, family-related or work-related concerns. So to all of you (whether you're in a relationship or not), I wish that may your day be filled with so much happiness and love. I believe that this day is not only for lovers. This is also a day that you celebrate with your family, your friends, and even yourself. Yep, that's right! Why? Because today, we're celebrating the meaning or the value of L-O-V-E. And love is not only limited to relationships with your special someone or with your family and friends. It also refers to the love that you give to yourself. Besides, you can't give something that you don't have, right? So love yourself first before loving others. Ain't that a great reason to celebrate? ;;)
Anyways, am done saying my piece here, hehehe. Time for me to say goodbye as I need to get back to work already. May all of you have a happy heart today and every single day! Hugz! >:D< >:D< >:D<
Showing posts with label lovemunch. Show all posts
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Monday, February 14, 2011
Thursday, August 6, 2009
10 Things I Miss About Him
It's actually been 10 days since that day when we've decided to lead our separate lives, hoping that it was for the best. But, it's just now that everything is sinking in. I have tried to be strong and optimistic for the past days thinking that everything will be fine... That someday our roads will meet again... That our love for each other will not change even if we're away from each other... Maybe I felt that way because we promised to still remain as friends no matter what. However, today, I felt something different. I no longer feel confident nor optimistic about it. Instead, I now experience the fear and pain of losing him. Only God knows what is instored for the two of us. As much as I try to slowly let go and move on, it's just soooo difficult. I may not be ready yet. I don't really know. All I know for now is that I miss him soooo much... That I wanna be with him... I wanna believe that this is just a bad dream and that everything will be back to normal when I wake up. It's just too sad though because I know that this isn't just a dream. It's the reality. So I have to slowly pick up the pieces of my life and try to make it whole again...
As I try to do that, I can't help but reminisce about the things I miss about him. Maybe because those are part of the pieces that I have to put together. I really miss everything about him but just decided to enumerate the 10 things that stand out. And, here it goes...
I miss those times...
10. When he goes to the office after my shift so he could fetch me and bring me home safely.
9. When he gives me a single long-stemmed red rose after my shift. It wasn't always but he did it a few times; and, it usually happened during those days when I feel stressed out at work. He never fails to surprise me or brighten up my day.
8. When he goes to the office in the morning after his shift just to bring me some food since he knows that I rarely eat breakfast.
7. When he visits me at home, we sometimes sit down on the grass under a starry and peaceful sky and just talk like there's no tomorrow, hehe.
6. When he sings the song that he dedicated to me.
5. When he sacrifices a few minutes (or hours) of his sleep just to chat with me or be with me.
4. When he comforts me by hugging me tight everytime I feel down.
3. When he pampers me like a baby and treats like a princess depending on the situation, hehe.
2. When we go to church together, he sits beside me and just hold my hand as we intently hear mass.
1. When he looks me in the eye and tells me how much he loves me with all warmth and sincerity.
Hahay... I can only reminisce for now... I don't even know if these things will happen again... Only God knows...
*sigh*
As I try to do that, I can't help but reminisce about the things I miss about him. Maybe because those are part of the pieces that I have to put together. I really miss everything about him but just decided to enumerate the 10 things that stand out. And, here it goes...
I miss those times...
10. When he goes to the office after my shift so he could fetch me and bring me home safely.
9. When he gives me a single long-stemmed red rose after my shift. It wasn't always but he did it a few times; and, it usually happened during those days when I feel stressed out at work. He never fails to surprise me or brighten up my day.
8. When he goes to the office in the morning after his shift just to bring me some food since he knows that I rarely eat breakfast.
7. When he visits me at home, we sometimes sit down on the grass under a starry and peaceful sky and just talk like there's no tomorrow, hehe.
6. When he sings the song that he dedicated to me.
5. When he sacrifices a few minutes (or hours) of his sleep just to chat with me or be with me.
4. When he comforts me by hugging me tight everytime I feel down.
3. When he pampers me like a baby and treats like a princess depending on the situation, hehe.
2. When we go to church together, he sits beside me and just hold my hand as we intently hear mass.
1. When he looks me in the eye and tells me how much he loves me with all warmth and sincerity.
Hahay... I can only reminisce for now... I don't even know if these things will happen again... Only God knows...
*sigh*
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
simply difficult
What is it? You might ask...
Well...
When you have to do something even if you don't want to. When you have to be firm with your decision thinking that it would be best for the two of you even if your heart bleeds. When you have to be strong even if you've lost strength to do so. When you have to be whole even if you're still shattered.
That's just simply difficult.
:'(
Well...
When you have to do something even if you don't want to. When you have to be firm with your decision thinking that it would be best for the two of you even if your heart bleeds. When you have to be strong even if you've lost strength to do so. When you have to be whole even if you're still shattered.
That's just simply difficult.
:'(
Friday, March 6, 2009
What Love Is
I know the topic of this post is a bit late considering that Valentine's Day is already over (about 20 days ago to be exact, hehehe). However, we cannot deny the fact that be it hearts day or not, all of us experience love everyday... one way or another. We feel love from our family, friends, special someone, and even strangers who just show compassion to us. We not only receive love but we also share them to others. So I just thought of making this post and talk about my views on love.
When people are asked how they define L0VE, we get a lot of different answers. That is why we refer to love as being subjective... because our definitions or descriptions are based on our life experiences. Now, if you ask me, I believe that love is more than just the emotions or the attraction that you feel for your partner. Love is also a Decision -- a decision that will give you strength and inspiration to make the relationship work especially when obstacles come your way. But what's best is that when you make such decision, you have to seek for God's grace and guidance then all else will follow.
Having said that, I'd like to share with you one of my favorite descriptions about love (or shall I say, one of the best definitions I've ever encountered). Here it is:
Sounds familiar, right? Well, that definition is taken from the Bible specifically from 1st Corinthians chapter 13 verses 3 to 4. I couldn't add anything to it anymore because it speaks for itself already. All I could say is that this verse serves as one of my inspirations in dealing with my relationship right now. Plus, this definition of love doesn't only limit you to the boy-girl and husband-wife relationships. It is universal. It does not only talk about the love between a couple but also the love of a person for his/her family, friends, relatives and others.
When people are asked how they define L0VE, we get a lot of different answers. That is why we refer to love as being subjective... because our definitions or descriptions are based on our life experiences. Now, if you ask me, I believe that love is more than just the emotions or the attraction that you feel for your partner. Love is also a Decision -- a decision that will give you strength and inspiration to make the relationship work especially when obstacles come your way. But what's best is that when you make such decision, you have to seek for God's grace and guidance then all else will follow.
Having said that, I'd like to share with you one of my favorite descriptions about love (or shall I say, one of the best definitions I've ever encountered). Here it is:
"L0VE is patient, love is kind.
It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous,
it is not inflated, it is not rude,
it does not seek its own interests,
it is not quick-tempered,
it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing
but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails."
It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous,
it is not inflated, it is not rude,
it does not seek its own interests,
it is not quick-tempered,
it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing
but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails."
Sounds familiar, right? Well, that definition is taken from the Bible specifically from 1st Corinthians chapter 13 verses 3 to 4. I couldn't add anything to it anymore because it speaks for itself already. All I could say is that this verse serves as one of my inspirations in dealing with my relationship right now. Plus, this definition of love doesn't only limit you to the boy-girl and husband-wife relationships. It is universal. It does not only talk about the love between a couple but also the love of a person for his/her family, friends, relatives and others.
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